Busy busy busy! It’s so common in our society to face co-workers, friends and even family who are just too slammed to talk or meet-up.
In the below video, we see this very situation between husband and wife. Watch out at the end for a helpful little phrase, which you can use when you’re facing someone who’s too busy to chat…
你先忙吧 / nǐ xiān máng ba
It breaks down as below:
- 你 / nǐ = you
- 先 / xiān = first; prior; to go ahead
- 忙 / máng = busy; rushed
- 吧 / ba = suggestive modal particle (i.e. “OK?”)
So literally this means: “Go ahead and be busy”. In English that might come across as sarcastic and snarky, but the meaning that is conveyed is: “Go work, I know you’re busy.”
Try to use this phrase next time you face a busy Chinese speaker. You might just stop them in their tracks and grab their attention, despite how busy they are!
Original post by Sarah Soulié